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Inside the
Brotherhood
Thoughts on fraternity violence
By Raymund
Narag
Dear
brothers and sisters,
I am sharing with you an article I wrote after my jail experience.
This is a painful realization of what I had been through.
I wish to come out in the open. I wish to initiate an enlightened
debate on the ills that plagued the fraternity system.
I believe that everyone is concerned about the growing problem
in the fraternity system. Much as the frat members want peace,
they cannot do it themselves.
One way of promoting peace in the campus is understanding the
nature of frat violence. Here is my view.
Please share with me your suggestions/comments/violent objections.
It will enrich me in my advocacy against fraternity violence.
There is a reason why God put me in jail for almost seven years.
I equally believe that there is a reason why He plucked me out.
I wish to respond to the new mission He gave me.
You can also share this with your friends and e-groups. And
advise them to send their messages to raymund.narag@up.edu.ph
Thanks and God bless.
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So
many promising young men have been put to waste. So many dreams
have been shattered. So many families have been broken.
The
fraternity system has become a big black hole that sucks in promising
young men and hurls them to their graves. The fraternity as an institution,
despite its avowed noble and lofty ideals, has degenerated into
a barbaric gang. Internally, its organizational structure has become
so hierarchically feudal, with the head becoming the law and the
members losing their individuality. Externally, it has imbibed the
culture of the tribesmen and treats other tribes as unforgivable
“enemies.”
With
the barbaric culture of the fraternities, school administrations
have responded with iron fist. They apply more stringent measures
and harsher penalties on those caught in the act of violence. Others
have totally banned the formation of the fraternities in the campus
and deny the fraternities’ existence. Some schools even equate frat
members with criminals preying on unsuspecting students/victims.
However, strict mechanisms have not deterred frat members from committing
acts of violence. They have simply adopted other instruments and
methods of war suitable to the changed terrain. Fistfights have
given way to cutters, lead pipes, baseball bats, and now handguns
and grenades. To elude identification, they wear masks. The advent
of cellular phones, has opened opportunities to inflict harm over
unknowing members of the other party. The war continues and continues
more recklessly.
Administrative and criminal cases filed in school and judicial authorities
have become, in themselves, battlegrounds for warring frat members.
It does not matter if the parties are telling the truth or committing
perjury. And expulsion from schools and putting innocent men behind
bars are now viewed as ways of scoring against the other party.
UP DILIMAN has been observed to have the most number of sensationalized
fraternity-related violence resulting in the death of students Dennis
Venturina, Mark Martin, Miguel Icasiano, Nino Calinao and Den Daniel
Reyes. Such violence has put the university in a bad light. Most
students look up to fraternities and view them as models. They are,
however, ugly models of how to make pillboxes and how to maim a
fellow student. The violence has grown. There are now reported incidents
of grenade throwing by university students in Metro Manila campuses.
And alas, even high school students and out-of-school youth in the
provinces and slum areas have their own gory tales to tell. Fraternity
violence has become a big concern that poses a considerable threat
to the educational and social system.
The seeds of violence
Though cloaked with noble and lofty ideals such as academic excellence,
nationalism, leadership, rule of law, and intellectual integrity,
the fraternities have developed strong organizational cultures that
lean towards violence and that contradict such ideals.
Hazing
The seeds of violence are sown early in the heart of a frat man
the moment he enters the fraternity. The rites of passage an applicant
has to go through before he can be considered a “brother” are replete
with physical and psychological violence. By testing their mettle
through pain and humiliation, the new members are inducted to become
blood brothers. In hazing or initiations, the neophytes are made
to believe that their fraternity is the one and only fraternity
existing. All the rest are mere dance troupes. The “masters” train
their “neophytes” to hate the “enemy” and vow to work for the destruction
of their enemy-fraternities.
The physical violence frat members undergo during initiations becomes
the rational for the acceptability of the other forms of violence.
Members accept violence as a normal practice.
Source of hatred
The culture of hate is passed on from one generation to another.
Stories of “war exploits” by senior and alumni members are told
again and again to young members exhorting them to do their fair
share in advancing the fraternity’s “glorious tradition.” They have
evolved the “warrior class” to act as vanguard in their military
efforts. The warrior class has the special mission of collecting
information against the other parties, in plotting attacks and developing
the paraphernalia of war. Members who do not adhere to the militarist
tradition are considered outcasts or have low fraternity stature.
The voices of those who have cracked more skulls or have proven
themselves to be “the man” command more following than those who
advocate good academic performance.
Psychological Violence
The other kind of violence that is less blatant but equally repressive
is the psychological violence imposed on the frat men. Frat members
are obliged to conform to the “high ideals” of the fraternity. They
are asked to do some tasks which test their loyalty to the fraternity
yet could be humiliating. As junior members or new recruits, they
cannot express their opinions and ideas on the policies made by
the fraternity officers. The members should follow rules without
question. In the process, the individuality of the members is subsumed
under the greater “interest of the fraternity”.
This setup makes it easy to mobilize frat members in times of war.
The head of the frat can easily command the whole membership and
assign them specific tasks. Even those who are anti-violence and
peace advocates within the frat have no option but to comply. They
are asked to hold a lead pipe or baseball bat even if their hearts
and minds find no logic for it. In a frat war situation, the other
party does not distinguish who are the hotheads and the cool heads.
The only considerations are if they are members of the “enemy” and
the target of the hit.
Members who do not want to be involved in this practice are considered
pariah. They are the butt of jokes and the objects of scorn. Some
frat members simply become less visible in the tambayan because
they cannot accept the norms of the frat. However, they may be called
upon once in a while to perform some tasks. But they do this at
their own risk. In times of rumbles, they cannot be easily informed
and updated about the status of war. They may attend their classes,
but they may also end up in a hospital. It then pays to become one
of the boys.
Those who have inclinations to campus politics, academics, campus
papers etc. are given high esteem only if they have proven themselves
to the fraternity. While it brings glory to a frat to have members
in the student councils and school papers, nonetheless, the higher
premium is still given to those who become officers and heads of
the frat. That is why, there are members who are “picked” and “arranged”
to become campus politicians. Their being in office is a manifestation
of the fraternity’s flexing of the muscle.
The psychological violence is therefore cloaked in sophistication.
While the frat members are obliged to surrender some of their individual
rights, the promise of reward for the members come in the full enjoyment
of benefits the frat receives as a whole.
Code of Silence
The fraternities anchor their strength on secrecy. Like the Sicilian
code of omerta, fraternity members are bound to keep the secrets
from the non-members. They have codes and symbols that frat members
alone can understand. They know if there are problems in campus
by mere signs posted in conspicuous places. They have a different
way of communicating, like inverting the spelling of words, so that
ordinary conversations cannot be decoded by non-members.
It takes a lot of acculturation for frat members to imbibe the code
of silence. The members have to be mainstays in the tambayan to
know the latest developments about new members and the activities
of other frats. Secrets are even denied to some members who are
not really “in.” They have to earn a reputation to be part of the
inner sanctum, to be considered a “true blue member.”
The code of silence reinforces the feeling of elitism. The fraternities
are worlds unto themselves. They are sovereign in their existence.
They have their own myths, concepts and worldviews. Save perhaps
their alumni association, they do not recognize any other authority
but their head.
Rumbles
Rumbles are the physical manifestations of the psychological state
of war among the members. Simple actions like “titigan” or “pagdaan
sa tambayan ng kabilang frat” can be misunderstood as invitation
for trouble. “Panliligaw sa girlfriend,” or “nakabangga sa inuman”
are explosive causes of war because these directly affect the macho
image of the frat member. There are also more childish reasons like
“trip maghanap ng away”. This usually happens when young members
are still high from stories their alumni members share with them
during drinking sprees. The young members are regaled about incidents
of war during the alumni’s time. After the drinking session, the
first “enemy” sighted is mauled and the incident becomes part of
the frat’s war exploits.
There are also rumbles waged in the interest of the fraternity.
This is usually in the defense of the fraternities’ name and image.
Examples would be in the conduct of campus elections or when other
fraternities encroach in the traditional projects of other fraternities.
School debates or sports tournaments, thus, cannot be handled by
a frat if there already is another fraternity that has been implementing
such projects.
Other reasons of rumbles could be the desire to take on “Godfather-like”
proportions. Rumbles are meant to strike fear in the heart of the
“enemy”. When a frat is engaged in rumble, it must beat the “enemy”
with a strong exclamation point, such that the “enemy” would no
longer have the physical and psychological strength to wage a rumble.
The culture of rumble is also self-perpetuating. When a fraternity
has “lost” in a particular incident of war, that fraternity would
present itself as a “victim”. It would contact friends in the media,
file charges in the administrative and judicial bodies and portray
itself as the aggrieved. Any bad publicity against the other party,
expulsions and suspensions from schools and incarceration in jails
are ways of getting back at the “enemy”. Then the fraternity buys
time. It waits till the “enemy” is complacent and then unloads its
vengeance and makes its score. Physical violence is still the highest
premium in exacting flesh and blood. The other party now becomes
the “victim”. It would file the appropriate charges and undergo
the same motions. And then, the attack comes.
Rumbles are cyclical. And it excludes no one. Not even the grade-conscious,
peace loving frat members who are easy targets since they attend
classes regularly and are more visible in the campus. Thus, their
schedules are easy to discern. Their routines can be easily plotted
out in preparation for an attack.
Cool heads and hotheads
Not all frat members however share the inclination or penchant for
rumble and violence. In a fraternity there are more cool heads than
hotheads. For every ten members, there are likely to be eight cool
heads and only two hot heads. However, the cool heads are the silent
majority in the fraternity. They seldom speak during meetings and
are not elected during frat elections. Their opinions and views
on how to run the affairs of the fraternity are not properly and
openly articulated. The cool heads have no identity in the frat.
They are lost in the multitude. They do not know each other. They
do not even know that they exist. Their longing for peace is gobbled
up by the voices of the hotheads.
The hotheads, on the other hand, are the speakers and articulators
of the “glorious tradition of the fraternity”, the tradition of
war and violence. They egg the other members to always look at their
frat with “pride and honor.” The hotheads continually put premium
on the need and necessity of putting up a fight if the interest
of the fraternity so demands. They are in constant search for new
members who share their beliefs and to whom they can pass on the
practices and techniques of war. They are the “moral” vanguards
of the fraternity. They applaud members who undergo experiences
that prove their mettle, like gallantly fighting during rumbles.
The hotheads make and determine the policy of the officers by default.
If, for example, they wish to consolidate the fraternity, they simply
launch an attack against another frat. This would compel all the
frat members to unite for one cause.
The hotheads and the cool heads in a fraternity cannot easily be
distinguished from one another. During times of rumbles, they act
as if they are one. The cool heads become hotheads if after some
prodding and exhortation, they agree to move as one. The hotheads
may also become cool heads, if after some horrifying experience,
they rediscover that there is nothing good that comes out of fraternity
violence.
Battle of two cultures
The culture of violence and the culture of peace have adherents
in every fraternity. Among the fraternities themselves, there are
always continuing debates on rumbles.
Most
of the time, the advocates of violence win over the others. It is
an adventurous way of life anyway, and there seems to be no hazard
at all. Since most of the members are teenagers—young and wild and
free—violence becomes an attraction, the fad, the “in thing” to
do. Having a rumble once in a while pumps up the adrenaline inside
the body. It seems a “healthy” way of releasing unspent energies.
During and after rumbles, especially if the frat wins, the members
are all high and ecstatic in sharing their little war exploits.
It bonds the members together.
However,
when the culture of violence reaches a certain level and accidents
become regular, the voice of the adherents for peace can be heard
again. The death of a member, or conviction in criminal cases involving
the fraternity, especially when reported by the media, is like cold
water splashed on the frat members. For a while, the culture of
peace becomes more dominant. After an incident that puts the entire
fraternity system in a bad light, the different fraternities, whether
sincere or not, put up a semblance of a desire to maintain peace
on campus. At such times, the fraternity members forge peace alliances
to rediscover the beauty of having friends with other fraternities.
Different fraternities would come together to play basketball and
vow to settle their disputes peacefully. They become careful not
to engage in anything that would only stir up more debate or add
to their already negative image. The fraternities are aware they
would likely have less number of recruits as a result of bad public
image.
However,
when the issue in the media about frat violence simmers down, or
when a new set officers takes control of the affairs of the fraternity,
the seeds for maintaining a culture of peace slowly die. The hotheads
in the fraternity and the stories of the alumni members about the
need to always look out for the other fraternities once again take
the upper hand in the battle of the two cultures. The mechanisms
for dialogue as a way to resolve dispute are forgotten. At the first
sign of a crack on the fragile peace a rush of violent confrontations
sets in. It is as if the fraternities have awaken from a long hibernation
and now have rediscovered their first love.
Public
Apathy
Non-frat members do not understand the mechanics of the fraternities.
They do not see any logic in the violent activities fraternity members
engage in. And so they simply dissociate themselves from the problems
that plague the fraternity system. They do not care if the frat
members become maimed or killed in an incident of war. While they
feel the loss and the pain of the families who have been victims
of frat violence, their sympathy is extended only to sighs of utter
hopelessness. They blame the depraved sense of values of the fraternities
yet mock the frat member for his stupidity in joining a frat. When
the issue of violence dies down, the public loses interest. Until
another incident claims another victim.
During
times when rumbles do not provide mortal results, the public joins
in the scoring game and applaud the frat that does the greater damage
to the other party. Such response feeds the frat members’ ego and
gives them more reason to engage in rumbles.
Peace
efforts
Violence has taken a heavy toll on the fraternities. There are individual
alumni members who have seen the futility of waging wars with other
fraternities and have initiated a campaign for peace. There are
resident frat members, who, after the death of one of their own
brothers, have modified their initiation procedures of applicants.
The university administration, after a drop in the enrollment and
low government budget due to the negative publicity caused by the
rush of rumbles, has begun to implement programs and activities
jointly conducted by the fraternities. There are students, who after
witnessing their friends beaten to death, have declared their areas
as peace zones.
These
are all efforts to curb the ills that afflict the fraternity system.
Yet, the efforts are not sustained. Many campaigns are launched
only during the heat of the issue. They live only as long as the
newspapers cover them. Worse, there are some campaigns launched
to prop up the public image of the fraternities but not to effect
genuine change in the frat system and culture.
Many
efforts fail because they come from the outside. There are efforts
initiated by the alumni members that did not involve the participation
of the resident frat members. There are highly publicized peace
accords signed by distinguished luminaries of the fraternities only
to be ignored the following day, the resident members being unaware
that they were not to engage in a rumble because their frats had
just signed an eternal peace pact.
Furthermore,
there are no structures for conflict resolution and mediation among
the fraternities themselves. The atmosphere is full of suspicion
and fraternities are apprehensive of the motives of one another.
While the fraternities may adhere to the idea of maintaining peace,
they do not have workable guidelines on how to achieve it. For example,
the fraternities may reach a consensus to police their own ranks
and give disciplinary action against erring members, but there is
no mechanism to ensure the penalty. They have to rely on the integrity
of each other’s word, which is the word of their “enemy.”
The
university administration effort to mediate conflicts is superficial.
Usually, upon learning that a rumble has occurred, the administration
officials would summon the heads of the fraternities and oblige
them to make a truce. The head of the fraternity who fails to attend
the truce in a specified time faces dire consequences like suspension
and expulsion. The heads, given such conditions, would sign the
truce and promise not to engage their group in any additional form
of aggression. The formality of peace is forged.
But
the conflict is not solved that easily. The general membership of
the frat simply changes their head to absolve him of any responsibility.
In their view, this frees the fraternity of its previous commitment.
Also, in order to avoid identification and the formal filing of
charges, the fraternities may simply go underground. No fraternity
would ever think of presenting its roster of members and set of
leaders to the school administration. But in order to continue with
its programs and activities, it simply forms a new student organization,
with the frat men as members, and registers this with the administration.
While administration may be able to temporarily shelve the problem,
the possibility of a rumble erupting can happen anytime.
Peace efforts will fail as long as the fraternity members do not
have the realization—that peace comes from within. No amount of
coaxing from the alumni members, no perfect structure for conflict
mediation, no joint activity, no arm twisting from the administration
can ever guarantee the end of fraternity violence.
Voice
of the victims
Fraternity violence has destroyed many lives. There are many students
now staying in jail. There are many more who have been expelled
from schools. Not a few have met their untimely deaths.
Fraternity
members are all victims here. The members are drowned in a culture
they themselves do not understand. The frat members are like moths
playing with fire. They never know when their wings will be smoldered.
The
victims should speak now. They should not meekly accept their
fate. Their experiences should not simply be sad stories in the
frat lore. The thought that their doom is a simple consequence of
being a frat man should be shattered.
The
victims are not mere accidents. They are flesh and blood individuals
who are bound to carry the burden of their bitter experience through
out their lives. They should break the code of silence and voice
their concern over the growing barbarism of the institution they
belong to. The victims should speak saying that all those who ever
held a paddle and lead pipe are all guilty for the fate that had
befallen their frat brothers.
The
victims must find their voice: the enemy here is not the “other”
fraternity, the enemy is ourselves. The culprit is the culture of
violence that engulfs the fraternity system.
Editor’s
Note: After
almost seven years of imprisonment, the author was acquitted on
28 Feb. 2002 in connection with a criminal case that caused the
death of Dennis Venturina in 1994. On 20 April 2002, the National
College of Public Administration and Governance (NCPAG), conferred
upon him his bachelor’s degree, cum laude. Today, he takes a leading
role in promoting peace and genuine brotherhood among fraternities.
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